Masturbation 2

Is it true that masturbation affect the bones, especially Joints, particularly the knee?

During masturbation some muscles of the body are in a state of contraction, most of these muscles are in the pelvic area and lower limbs which are the thighs and legs and this contraction continues along practice period, turns then to shrinkage and sometimes muscle strain of the length of this contraction..
As the knee is the forum for the beginnings and ends of most of these muscles, this contraction primarily affects the knees that cause pain because of screwing on the shielding around the joint and also on the membrane overlying the same bone, above the knee and below which is called Periosteum is rich in nerves that feel pain easily therefore young man or woman feels after masturbation those pains in the bones and joints, especially the knee and lower limbs, which means that the effect is not direct on bones or joints, but indirect impact by running the muscles and sensory nerves and those muscles’ ligaments, which in turn affect the joint and the bone casing.

What is the way to get rid of masturbation?

I would prefer to use logic in these things, In the sense that you should, hold the thing from its source, this source differs from one person to another, therefore, I do not like customization in this matter, but to generalize and leave the customization for the reader, this means source for you, for example, watch pornography, or access to one chat room and dialogue in the Internet about sex, and sometimes this practice occurs online so people encourage each other on it, or access to pornographic sites on the Internet that contain images or even films that cause excitement and exhausted instinctive desire to do the habit.
This is the biggest problem this is for entertainment and fill leisure time, and this is done in two phases, the first phase induce lust and have it to imagine a picture of a naked man/woman known or unknown, or imagine others with sexy clothes, or a third issue dramatic instincts voices or says pornographic things craves people to hear or…….etc. There are images of endless imagination...

Consequently, in the first lines of defense in the face of this visit, the unwanted, the masturbation, is closing the doors that come out, and this is not easy, particularly for one of the addicts, but it requires a solid hard will with great struggle, and at fight that devil but to encourage the will of men/woman, the determination of young people and consider it a battle between you and the devil, and we'll see how many of you will win over arch-rivals, but no doubt that the young man/woman in your insistence and your determination can not let any of it to win and overcomes the strong will and especially if there is a big benefit in it for your marital future ...
What is the impact of this habit on the sexual relationship, as well as the experience of sex before marriage?
As for the impact on sexual relationship; it has more than one axis:
 The first is the formation of sexual template for the practitioner unlike the normal sexual practice with the opposite sex, so at the beginning things are going in an acceptable form performing a new function, but the instinct insists seeking essential modulation which fails to be in most cases for those who carousing in masturbation,
 The second is to be back to the normal line for bilateral sexual relationship namely marital, then needs some sexual therapy sessions, this is a response to what I said about sexual experience- hope to be with your wife there can Halal- which I pointed out that it was good -and I come back and say we cannot judge the performance from one-time or even a few times of sexual intercourse; since the beginning of practice is always a mutually satisfactory, but the referee comes later.

And I've been through a lot of situations in my clinic came complaining about the consequences of masturbation after several months of marriage, sometimes after a year or a few years, sometimes after many years and this is after childbirth; where the parties are busy with pregnancy and new baby in the first place, then go ecstasy comes the idea, as they say in the old Arab proverb, and narrows the guy on the urgency of instinct -as noted above- improving sexual function, so the excitement with both arousal and interestingness on one line happens while enjoying which means that the presence of the answer and response between the parties must happen after that practitioner used to do by himself both roles of the both parties of the relationship which negated with what Allah gave to the human - God is more knowledgeable with his/her needs - so practitioner feels upset of this after a while and trying to get back to a normal relationship that included self-balance and satisfy the instinct and the satisfaction of needs.